Hesitating to buy a new car? Guilty of spending money on a latte on your way home? Discover guilt-free and unashamed spending habits through your own values. Learning how to spend with intention does not only benefit our finances but also our overall well-being and connections with other people. In this episode, Jen and Jill laid out the blueprint for values based spending and its significance in living an intentional frugal life.
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What is Values Based Spending?
If you’ve been following along, you’ve probably heard Jen and Jill talk about “values based spending” frequently. Essentially, it means spending in alignment with what truly matters to you, not wasting money on things you don’t care about. It’s about recognizing that we can’t have everything, just as David Allen famously said, “You Can Do Anything, But Not Everything.”
When we prioritize our values in spending, we become more conscious of our choices and gain a better understanding of ourselves. This approach can alleviate financial guilt and shame. Sometimes, it means giving yourself permission to spend or cutting back without deprivation. Other times, it might lead to realizing that what you value most doesn’t require spending at all, fostering contentment, and discovering what is truly enough.
Why is Values Based Spending Important?
As we step into adulthood, we’re expected to handle spending wisely, even though no one really teaches us how. Jill stresses that spending is a skill, and without mastering it, cutting back alone won’t improve our financial situation much. However, learning this skill offers the freedom to spend without guilt and shame.
Though consumption is a natural part of life, Jen advises against excessive indulgence. When we learn to spend purposefully, it positively impacts not only our finances but also our overall well-being, helping us relate to and understand others better through a values-based financial perspective.
How Do You Practice Values Based Spending?
Personal example of values based spending
Jill values community and beauty among many other things, and related to them are travel and renovating her house. She enjoys seeing new places and being in a beautiful space.
While Jen finds joy in spending time alone by getting an iced latte takeout and walking around places. Also, she loves feeling strong and good about her body, so paying money for gym memberships and other fitness programs greatly helps her.
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