Hey Friend! 

In a world of “must-haves”, influencers, & the latest trends, it can be hard to differentiate between needs and wants – especially for our kiddos.

but we have a hot take… 🤭 

It doesn’t have to be this way.

WATCH | Deinfluencing Kid Stuff: These Parents Are TEACHING OVERCONSUMPTION

💡 Our Top 3 Tips to Say “No” to More Stuff

1. Take a pause.

Before buying, take a moment to breathe and ask yourself, “What’s the purpose of this?” Is it just to end a toddler meltdown in Target? Or are you getting swept up in the dreamy marketing that makes a $25 item feel like the answer to all your problems?

A quick pause helps cut through the noise—and reminds you that the cute decor on aisle 9 is probably just overpriced plastic.

2. Ditch “just in case” thinking.

Say it with us: “Just in case” is not an excuse to buy something you don’t need.

A third phone charger just in case one breaks? not necessary. A pack of glitter pens just in case you start journaling again? That’s called procrasti-spending. Most of the time, these things sit unused and take up space.

Try borrowing, thrifting, or waiting 24 hours before buying. Chances are, you won’t miss it.

3. Make a “yes” list. 

Saying “no” constantly can be draining. A “yes” list helps shift the focus. Say yes to things that build joy, memories, and creativity—like books, field trips, or museum memberships.

Rebranding your habits can be difficult at first – but when you start saying “no” to toys & outfits, it’s a lot easier to say “yes” to a clean home, a financial cushion, and more imagination.

With intention,
Kim

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